being & becoming.

I broke up with my therapist.

unpacking the cost of constantly outsourcing and analyzing your intuition

Nov 25 • 

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I went to Nigeria for the first time in four years.

my Lagos diary: everything I did, where I ate, shopped, slept etc.

Nov 12 • 

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October 2025

I have something in common with Victoria Beckham.

who would've thought?

Oct 15 • 

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Can Temi Otedola plan my wedding?

also: locking in, podcasts I loved, new brand launches, my favorite Nigerian brand atm, and other cultural moments I loved in September!

Oct 2 • 

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September 2025

How to host the perfect dinner party

all the ingredients you need, from the proclaimed "queen of hosting"

Sep 16 • 

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August 2025

The Upside to Taking Downtime: on choosing alignment over ambition

and why I'm not hosting an AfroKlash event this year.

Aug 27 • 

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So, I took my first solo trip. Here's what I learned.

On starting small, embracing awkwardness, and honoring your truth.

Aug 20 • 

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What I Learned From Walking 10,000 Steps a Day for 21 Days

over 210,000 steps and 80 miles later, some lessons on discipline, consistency and clarity.

Aug 4 • 

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For the love of Tracee Ellis Ross, mourning Ami Colé, discussing cringe culture, and recent fashion obsessions

let's get into July.

Aug 1 • 

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July 2025

A Joyful June Drop

talent that inspires, new skincare favorites, thoughts on showing up, and more.

Jul 1 • 

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June 2025

Today is my 5 year anniversary.

reflecting on my most life changing relationship (so far).

Jun 20 • 

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May 2025

Why I stopped reading self-help books

and what actually worked to change my life.

May 23 • 

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